June 2010 - Featured Alum
What years were you at camp?
I first arrived at Phantom for a Boys Camp session in the early summer of 1987.
I don’t remember exactly when my last summer on staff would have been, but I am guessing that it was 1995. I won’t say it was my FINAL summer, because one never knows….I just might come back sometime.
What tents were you in?
Never was a camper at Phantom, but without a doubt Cherokee was my haven.
What job(s) did you have as staff member?
Mag Sevens
Counselor
Kitchen Staff
Zicahota Director
SDP Director
What are you doing now?
Besides wishing that I was on the shores of Phantom this very moment, I do have a career as a teacher in Waukesha. I also do some bartending from time to time which is probably one of my favorite hobbies.
I have season tickets to the Brewers so find myself at Miller Park frequently during the summer. I live in Milwaukee and love exploring the city…it just keeps regenerating itself! Just when you think you have seen and done it all, you turn around and find so much more! I have a priceless group of friends, a devoted dog, and a house that tends to demand plenty of time.
My calendar is always covered with notes and scribbles, the glass is always ¾ full (why settle for ½ a glass, afterall), and laughter is a huge part of every single day for me. I have no complaints: life really and truly is good.
What about your camp experience has influenced you the most?
Clearly, it was the people that influenced me the most. There are multitudes of summer camps around the country that could boast of better programming or of finer facilities. What kept me coming back for those summers - and what keeps me still connected to PLYC today - are the people.
I was already in college (at Indiana University - GO HOOSIERS!) when I first came to PLYC, but the people of camp influenced me by helping me to learn. Just what did they help me to learn?
Among so many other things I learned, almost by accident, that I could make a difference in others’ lives.
I learned that a job well done was appreciated. That oftentimes true respect was given to you when you first gave it to others.
I figured out that if you had a positive attitude and outlook, it would spread to others.
I also learned that when I made hard decisions, I was not usually the only one that they were hard for.
I learned that people like to be listened to. A lot.
That when I didn’t understand something, it was my responsibility to try to understand. And, oh! That responsibility!
As a human being, I am responsible to take care of others. I learned that people are not always fair and just….and when people aren’t fair and just? – the unavoidable (though temporary) grudges could undeniably stifle me.
I learned it was important to love what I do. That spirituality does not just mean ‘church.’
I learned that ‘growing up’ does not mean that I had to put my teddy bear away. That wisdom, and stature and favor with God and Man are not just sides of a square, but admirable character traits.
That Pride is a good thing. And probably one of the most important things that I learned? The best thing I can do for myself and others is to take the time to look up, and laugh, and love and lift.
The list truly could continue. I could keep writing from now until this July’s All-Era Reunion and STILL not be finished. But when it comes right down to it, these things don’t necessarily matter that much.
You see, what does matter is that I did have the chance to be influenced by the people of Phantom. My experiences and interactions with them helped me to become who I am today.
It has made all the difference.
I owe a huge amount of gratitude to so many people, but the biggest show of appreciation would be to continue spreading their influence. I can do this by my being the same type of person to others that they were to me. By doing this, the ripples they made…even after all these years…are still expanding and still influencing others today.
Is there anyone from camp to which you'd like to say hello?
Mike Murphy, Matt Korinko, Joelle Louise, Kindler, McSteen(s), Slim, Kennan, Cippie, My Partner in Crime (that’s Crafty Kate), Becky, Toodles, Jack & Jimmy & Jeff, Tim Geiger, Ryan Lund, Machanster, Flipper, Indiana Jay, Lady Sue, Mt. Mike, Sir G, The Bradys, Matt Nolan (My first Mag 7!), Alan, Jazz, Carole, The D’Angelos, All my former SDPs, All my former campers, 1896 Society members. Let’s Reunite at Reunion!
Would you like to share your email addresses?
carrollpd@aol.com